Occasion guide

Different venues, one festival weekend

You have booked a festival across several days and venues in one city. Some friends want an early session; others are joining after work or staying for the late programme. Keep each person's confirmed choices in view, leave time between venues and agree when you will find each other again.

Check each session and venue separately

  • Use the organiser's current programme to record the date, venue, confirmed session time and entry window for each booking. Check for programme changes before each day begins.
  • Ask who is actually attending each session. Keep wish-list choices separate from confirmed bookings and leave room for shorter stays, rest breaks and separate plans.
  • Confirm ticket access, capacity or reservation requirements, bag rules and re-entry terms for every venue. A festival pass does not necessarily guarantee entry to every performance.
  • Record verified venue addresses and entrances. Check access needs with the venues and transport providers; do not assume every transfer or meeting place suits everyone.
  • Confirm accommodation check-in, arrivals and departures for the people staying overnight. Keep the final journey home in view when choosing the last session.

Leave a real gap between venues

Check the actual journey between confirmed venues using current transport and access information. Allow for leaving the first session, queues, the transfer and entry at the next venue. Two nearby venues can still be an impractical pairing when the sessions overlap or a journey is unsuitable for someone.

Agree which people travel together on each leg and what they will do if a session runs late or transport changes. Choose what to skip or change instead of treating every booking as reachable. Update the shared plan when a choice changes; this single-city outline does not cover an entire touring programme.

Give each day a reunion and a fallback

Choose one daily shared moment, such as a meal or an evening reunion, with the people who want to join. Check the place is identifiable, permitted and reachable, away from busy entrances and exits. Agree a window, a waiting limit and a checked backup.

“On [day], meet at [checked place] between [start] and [end]. Wait until [agreed time]. If the place is unavailable, use [checked backup]. If we cannot reach each other, follow [agreed next step].”

Save the instructions and essential official information offline before leaving. Include each person's return arrangement and what happens if they miss the nightly reunion. Do not rely on a last-minute group message or assume the whole group takes the same ride. For an urgent concern, use the venue's official assistance arrangements; a meetup fallback is not an emergency plan.

Build a daily outline around confirmed choices

  1. Arrivals: confirm who is in the city, where overnight guests check in and the first shared window.
  2. Daily sessions: record each person's bookings and feasible transfers, with time for breaks.
  3. Shared meal: confirm who joins and whether a booking is needed; keep it optional for those at another session.
  4. Evening choices and reunion: let smaller groups follow their sessions, then use the agreed nightly meeting and return arrangements.
  5. Departures: check checkout tasks, belongings and each person's confirmed onward journey.

This is an outline to adapt, not a festival timetable. Replace it with the actual programme, bookings and group choices. Do not invent venue times, journey durations or accessible routes.

Split each ride among the people taking it

Six friends attend the festival; three agree to share a taxi after one evening session. If those three agree to divide a fictional €45 fare equally, each owes €15. The other three are not in that taxi split. A different ride the next night can have different participants and a different cost rule.

Agree who pays upfront and how each shared purchase is divided before buying. Accommodation, meals and transport can involve different people; tickets and personal purchases stay separate unless you agree otherwise. This example is not a default fairness rule or a fare estimate.

Keep one plan the group can check

Cairn's manual friends' weekend demo shows an itinerary, dinner attendance and an illustrative expense split among the six dinner attendees. It is a fictional demonstration, not a created trip.

See a friends' weekend in Cairn